How We Work Together

Every session is a collaboration, consent-driven and unique. It may include one, or a blend of modalities that best support your intentions for the session.

I encourage self-practice between sessions, as working at your own pace and applying the techniques yourself leads to the most lasting change.

Based in Ocean Shores, NSW I work with clients in person and online via Zoom. Sessions vary between 2-3 hours and cost $180 - $500 depending on what we’re engaging in.

If you're looking for lasting transformation, I recommend 3-5 sessions or a longer program. But feel free to start with a single session to explore and feel it out.

I welcome individuals and couples of all genders and sexual orientations.

  • On a discovery call we determine whether we are a good fit. You can ask me questions and decide if I am the right person for you.

  • We'll discuss your desires and your biggest obstacles to set outcomes for working together.

  • I work with a range of modalities and will suggest some options that will best support you..

  • We'll develop a customised program that guides our work together.

  • We'll continuously reflect and adjust the program as we progress.

Modalities We Can Explore

Somatic Sexology

“Somatic sexology is the meeting of somatics (focusing awareness through the body), with sexology (the scientific study of human sexuality).”
— Institute of Somatic Sexology

Somatic Sexology is at the heart of every session I offer. As a somatic sexologist these are some of the things I can help you with:

  • Premature ejaculation

  • Erectile dysfunction

  • Porn addiction

  • Sexual confidence

  • Communication, boundaries, consent

  • Self-pleasure coaching

  • Sexual anatomy education

  • Body image and confidence

  • Intimacy challenges

  • Libido

  • Orgasmicity

  • Pain during sex

  • (Peri) menopause symptoms

  • Postpartum body changes

Tools and Practices

Some of the things we can explore in sexological bodywork sessions include:

  • Pleasure Mapping

  • Yoni Mapping

  • Scar Remediation

  • Prostate Massage

  • Anal Mapping

  • De-armouring

Note that we always work at your pace and may not jump straight into bodywork. Sometimes a few foundation sessions may be necessary to connect with your body, learn healthy boundaries and consent, and tools to regulate your nervous system.

Shamanic Bodywork

My shamanic bodywork sessions are a safe and nurturing space for you to explore your body’s sensations and emotions. Together, we’ll set clear intentions to guide your journey of release and transformation

Through mindful touch and deep listening I guide you to identify and clear any blockages that may be holding you back. This is an opportunity to heal emotional wounds, deepen your self-awareness, or connect with your body on a new level.

If you haven’t worked with me before, some foundation sessions may be needed in preparation.

“Shamanic bodywork involves working with the physical, energetic, and spiritual bodies to release stored trauma and emotions, allowing for profound healing and transformation.”
— Alberto Villoldo

Tantric Touch

“The purpose of tantric massage is to promote relaxation, intimacy, and the flow of sexual energy, not just for pleasure, but as a form of healing and self-awareness. ”
— Barbara Carrellas

I incorporate tantric touch into all my bodywork sessions by using slow, mindful touch and techniques. In Tantric Touch sessions I invite you to breathe, sound, and bring awareness to reconnect with your body for healing and awakening your sexual energy.

Please note, these sessions are for healing with intention and not a sexual service.

Conscious Kink

“Conscious kink is a practice that involves bringing full awareness, communication, and intentionality into exploring desires, boundaries, and power dynamics within a safe, consensual space.”
— Barbara Carrellas

In my conscious kink sessions I take you on a journey of sensations focussing on moving energy through your body for embodiment and healing. We begin each session by setting intentions and boundaries, ensuring a safe space for you to explore your desires.

My specialties include bondage ( not shibari ), impact and sensation play. I’m here to help you navigate your journey, whether you’re just starting or have some experience.

For Couples

I help couples navigate their sexuality and intimacy challenges by providing a safe space for open communication and exploration. We’ll address specific concerns such as mismatched desires, emotional disconnection, or unresolved tensions.

Though tools and techniques you will reconnect with yourselves and each other to build pleasure and intimacy in your relationship. You will receive exercises that promote vulnerability, conscious touch and easeful communication of your needs and desires.

Customised experiences are also available

  • Couples Tantric Massage integrates conscious touch, breathwork, and presence to renew the erotic vitality in your relationship.

  • Conscious Kink education and exploration for couples enhances communication about desires and expands your repertoire of touch and play.

“Sexuality is a vital part of our humanity, and we should approach it with joy, not shame.”

— Amina Wadud

What Clients are Saying

“I have worked with Heide in both tantric and shamanic massage practices and both times was able to cultivate more peace and awareness in my body, understanding of my feminine self and finding ways to connect with my emotions, both painful and pleasurable, in a more empowering way. I would recommend Heidi for embodied tantric healing.” - Female

“My partner and I have had many session with Heide and we found that she created a beautiful safe container in which we could express ourselves individually and as a couple to work through relationship challenges and disconnection. One time we entered the session certain that we would break up, but then we came out of the session back in love and connection.” - Couple

“I learned a lot from our sessions. From how to communicate to my partner and myself, to practical tools to get to know my body, my sexual energy and how it flows through me.” - Male

“A rich and rare experience! My partner and I came as newbies to kink, keen to explore, and to challenge our fears and societal conditioning. Heide was warm, supportive and playful. She took time to feel where we were at and generously shared her experience. Together we delved into a world of sensation, technique and dom/sub dynamics. We came away with a new-found confidence, broader perspectives and lots of new ideas. Can’t recommend what you do enough.” - Couple

Heide is an amazing healer, bodyworker and holder of spaces. My sessions with her have been profound, healing and safe. Honoured to work with her. - Male